I Hired a Caregiver for My Elderly Father — Then He Told Me, ‘She’s Not Who She Says She Is’
Skip to content I Hired a Caregiver for My Elderly Father — Then He Told Me, ‘She’s Not Who She Says She Is’ When my father needed extra assistance in the house in his older years, I found someone to care for him, but the person only caused us trouble. One day, I came home and saw fear in my father’s eyes when he spoke about the caretaker, leading me to decide to let her go. I thought hiring a caregiver for my dad, Frank, would make life easier. It was supposed to bring peace of mind, not paranoia. But that’s exactly what happened when our personal items started disappearing. My father was a proud man—stubborn and independent, the kind of guy who refused to ask for directions even when hopelessly lost! But after a minor fall left him injured and unable to care for himself, he had no choice. His doctor insisted he needed assistance, and for once, I put my foot down. “I can’t be here all the time, Dad,” I told him. “You need someone.” My job was demanding, and I couldn’t always be ...